Couple trouble

Couple trouble

Signs that my partner is bad for me

Split from a person is anything but easy. We always try to protect him because deep down he means something to you. You look for excuses to explain his behavior: “He just has stress at work, he doesn’t mean it like that…”. Usually in these situations you look for the error in yourself because he always manages to turn the situation around and make you feel guilty. But how do you know that your partner is not good for you and that it is no longer possible to save your relationship.

We don't share the same values

Over the years each of us evolves and changes, ideally with our partner. However, both parties go through life with different goals and values. For example, in terms of family planning or future career, paths diverge. Relationships are on divergent paths. Even at the level of intercourse, there may be a difference in sexual desire between the partners.

Daily efforts to save the couple

A couple should be filled with happiness every day with closeness and warmth. However, if you have to force yourself every day and make efforts to maintain this relationship, take time to breathe. Of course, every couple goes through bad phases, but when they become permanent, it may be time to let go.

Friends networks are not accepted

All people are different and getting along is not easy. However, if your partner is teasing all your friends, it should give you pause. If he or she makes no effort to turn this bad relationship into a better one, that’s not good.

We doesn't share anything in our relationship

You don’t dare to talk long and share what moves you? What do you really think and feel? Be careful, because sooner or later all these hidden emotions will burst out into the open like a volcanic eruption. If you squeeze a spring even for a long time, one day or another it will come back in its original form

He blames me and never questions himself

Whether your relationship is not working because something is wrong with you is your own business. On the other hand, if your partner is unable to reflect on himself and behaves like a spoiled child then there is a real problem in your relationship. But, a relationship always involves two people. Don’t let your partner take all the blame for the problems in your relationship.

He no longer respects or considers me

Respect and understanding are the foundations of love and a solid foundation for a couple. Even in the worst of times we must treat the people we love with respect, even if we simply cannot stand them anymore. But some issues are so fundamental that we lose our footing. This is most certainly a sign that love has no chance in your relationship.

He's starting to hate me

If you can’t stand your partner anymore and his or her mere presence makes you frantic, you should really ask yourself why but also if it is still worth fighting for your love. Isn’t the last bit of feeling dissolving?

Our relationship becomes unbearable and unlivable

If you behave abnormally and say things you don’t mean you are most certainly on the verge of a breakup? Are you making fun of him and his jokes, leaving a big blank space for his comments or are these opinions making you frantic? Beware, it may be time to make some decisions. All these signs are clear indications that you are not yourself anymore and that you risk losing your true identity. You may not recognize yourself anymore…

He is no longer interested in me

In relationships, the most important thing is that your partner is successful and happy. We instinctively want them to have everything they need. But if your partner never blames you for anything and speaks ill of what you have accomplished, then your connection will be filled with resentment and hatred. Do you really want to be with someone who can’t stand when good things happen to you?

He doesn't believes in our relationship

Relationships can survive crises… Maybe you and your partner are going through a difficult time. As long as you believe in yourself and your love, it doesn’t have to be too late. But if your inner voice has been whispering to you for a long time that your relationship doesn’t make sense anymore, then listen to it. Get rid of the relationship and accept that you and your partner are not meant to be together. Let go, surround yourself with people who are good for you. With this solution you and your partner may have a chance at a happy ending.